
Sleepless nights are something most parents expect when a new baby arrives. But sometimes those broken nights can stretch on for months, through into toddlerhood, or even beyond. For affected families, bedtime can become a battle every night, and soon the exhaustion can build up and take its toll. High-quality sleep is important for little ones too, of course, so solving sleep problems will benefit the entire household. For parents who have perhaps tried everything without success, a sleep consultant can step in to offer support and professional guidance.
At Little Cedars Nursery, we often hear parents sharing stories of early morning wake-ups, tricky nap times, or little ones who seem determined to party at midnight. It’s important to know that these challenges are common, and they don’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. Sometimes, though, an extra helping hand can make all the difference. So, with that in mind, welcome to today’s guide to sleep consultants.
What Exactly is a Sleep Consultant?
A sleep consultant is someone who works alongside parents to help babies and young children develop healthier sleep patterns.
Some consultants have backgrounds in health visiting, nursing, or childcare, while others have trained through specialist sleep programmes. Because there isn’t formal regulation for the specialism in the UK, approaches can vary. In view of this, it’s advisable to ask about their experience and methods, and seek any recommendations from friends and family, before choosing your child’s sleep consultant.
What Does a Sleep Consultant Do?
A sleep consultant works with families to understand a child’s sleep patterns and suggest gentle, practical ways to improve things. They spend time learning about a child’s routine, feeding habits, daily schedule, and sleep environment before creating an improvement plan that feels realistic for the child’s family. The idea isn’t about handing parents a rigid set of rules, but about working together to find an approach that feels the most suitable and fits in with the family’s values.
When Might a Family Consider Using One?
Every child has ups and downs with sleep, and many phases resolve themselves. But if night waking is relentless, naps are a constant struggle, or early mornings begin long before dawn, it can start to impact the whole household. Parents sometimes seek help when they feel they’ve tried everything themselves — advice from books, friends, or online forums — but nothing seems to have worked. A consultant offers not just ideas, but reassurance and encouragement, which can be just as valuable as the plan itself.
What to Expect
Working with a sleep consultant often begins with a thorough conversation about your child’s routine — what time they go to bed, how they fall asleep, how they feed, and what happens during the night. From there, the consultant will create a personalised plan that involves tailored changes. These might be small adjustments, such as introducing a calmer wind-down before bed, or they could involve gradually teaching your child to settle with less help. It may also include strategies for how you respond when your child wakes in the night.
Putting the plan into practice takes consistency and patience, which is why many consultants often stay in touch for several weeks, checking in by phone, video call, or messages. That ongoing support can make the process feel less daunting and also help keep families on track.
Different Approaches to Sleep
Not every consultant works in the same way. Some focus on gentle, responsive methods where parents stay close, offering comfort and reassurance as children learn to settle more independently. Others place more emphasis on the rhythm of the day, with carefully timed naps, bedtime routines, and adjustments to the sleep environment. A few use more structured behavioural strategies, for example, where parents slowly reduce how much they intervene at bedtime.
Most UK-based consultants tend to favour family-friendly, gentle approaches rather than anything that involves leaving babies to cry alone for long stretches of time. Still, it’s important for parents to ask about this in advance and choose someone whose philosophy feels like the right fit.
Practical Considerations
Costs for hiring a sleep consultant vary. Depending on the consultant contacted, a one-off initial consultation can often be an affordable first step — and one that will allow families to explore the potential of proceeding with a full plan. However, a full package with several weeks of guidance can often be several hundred pounds. In-home, overnight support is potentially at an even higher end of the scale — but, again, it varies from consultant to consultant. Many families find that online or phone-based support from a sleep consultant is more affordable, and sometimes just as effective.
There are also free options to explore, of course. Health visitors sometimes run sleep workshops or offer individual guidance, and charities such as the Lullaby Trust provide excellent advice including important resources on safe sleep. Many parents also find comfort via parenting groups, where they can share experiences and discover new ideas.
Our Perspective
At Little Cedars Nursery, we understand that sleep — or the lack of it — has a huge impact on family life. Sleep consultants may not be a quick fix, but for families who are reaching their limit, they can offer a real lifeline. Success usually comes from finding someone whose approach aligns with your parenting style, sticking with the plan for long enough to see improvements, and feeling supported along the way.
Sleep challenges can feel overwhelming, but whether you decide to invest in professional help or draw on free resources and community support, the most important thing is remembering that you’re not alone. With time, consistency, and sometimes a little outside help, things really can get better. And remember: struggles with sleep are common and don’t make you any less of a wonderful parent. And, who knows, perhaps in a year or two when you’ve come out the other side, people may come to you for advice!
Little Cedars Nursery, Streatham

Little Cedars is a high-quality nursery in Streatham, near Tooting, Furzedown, Balham, Norbury, and Colliers Wood. Graded as a good provider by Ofsted, we ensure that babies and children under five have the very best start in life in a warm, caring, home-from-home environment. We also support free childcare schemes for eligible children aged from 9 months to 4 years — great for working parents!
If you would like to learn more about Little Cedars Nursery or visit in person for a guided tour, please get in touch. You can also ask any questions or start the process of enrolling your child using the options below:


Tantrums are a common part of life with toddlers and under-fives, but when they happen, they can be very challenging! Whether it’s a meltdown at dinner time or a dramatic on-the-floor outburst in the middle of the supermarket aisle, they can test even the most patient of parents and carers. However, it’s important to understand that tantrums aren’t a sign that something is wrong — they’re actually a normal, healthy stage of child development.
In their early years, children are still learning how to manage big emotions. There’s a mismatch, though; their brains are developing rapidly, but they haven’t yet mastered language, impulse control, or emotional regulation. So, when they’re tired, hungry, overstimulated, or frustrated, it can all become too much for them.
When a tantrum starts, staying calm yourself is key. Your child will take emotional cues from you, their trusted adult. If you can remain steady, even if you’re feeling flustered inside, you send the message that you’re in control—and that they’re safe.
Avoid reasoning or explaining too much during a tantrum. When a child is overwhelmed, they’re unlikely to take much in. It’s often best to wait it out and stay close so they know they’re not alone. For some children, a gentle touch or hug might be helpful. Others may need a bit of space before they’re ready for comfort.
Offering limited choices — like “Would you like to wear the red jumper or the blue one?” — can also give them a sense of control without overwhelming them.
Work at least 16 hours or more per week at the National Minimum Wage
National Children’s Gardening Week is a wonderful annual event that’s designed to inspire children’s curiosity around growing plants and gardening-related activities. It takes place during what is typically a warm period of the year. That’s important because it means seeds and plants will grow faster and need minimal protective measures from inclement weather. Speedy growing results will appeal to little ones!
National Children’s Gardening Week coincides perfectly with the Spring Bank Holiday and May half-term school holiday, taking place from the 24th of May to the 1st of June 2025. It’s usually a lovely warm week and is perfect timing for children to make the most of the event and to maximise the many benefits of spending time around nature.
National Children’s Gardening Week also raises money to support children in hospices through the national charity Greenfingers. They create inspiring gardens and beautiful outdoor spaces where hospice children with life-limiting conditions can play, rest, relax, and spend time with family and friends. Such outdoor spaces allow affected children to spend quality time away from the bedside in well-designed outdoor areas where they can enjoy all the benefits of fresh air and a natural environment.
Children and families can take part at home as well as in participating schools, childcare settings, community groups, ‘outdoorsy’ retail outlets and even some National Trust properties.
Sowing Wildflower Seeds
Herbs and some vegetables can be grown from seeds, cultivated, and harvested from simple flowerpots or yoghurt pots. They can also be ‘re-grown’ through various devious means that will fascinate children including under-fives. We wrote a whole post about that too, so take a look — it’s quite ingenious, is incredibly educational, and results in free food! What’s more, it can be done indoors.
Another ‘indoor gardening’ activity is growing these comical ‘egg heads’. Grown simply from cress seeds, they can be grown in egg shells as shown, or another alternative would be yoghurt pots. When the cress is ready to be harvested and used in salads or as a garnish, the little characters can have a haircut!
Another activity that children can get involved in for National Children’s Gardening Week is to create bee-friendly gardens. Our recent post about World Bee Day explains how to make a bee oasis (from where bees and pollinators can get a refreshing drink) and a bee-friendly garden.
Plants love compost and so do minibeasts. So, another wonderful activity for children in National Children’s Gardening Week is to make homemade compost. Our dedicated
Once the flowers are blooming outside, children can experiment with pressing flowers. Pressed flowers are a wonderful way for children to save flowers semi-permanently as keepsakes or to use as part of an art activity.
The youngest children will love this activity! Children will need some scavenged moss, pebbles, sticks, seashells and perhaps small pieces of driftwood from a beach. Children can then use these to transform the soil in a large pot or on top of a log into 

With all the food and feasting associated with Christmas, it got us thinking about food hygiene and safety for children. Aside from keeping alert to possible allergens, parents need to be careful to ensure families remain safe from illnesses caused by food hygiene mishaps. After all, such illnesses can be particularly dangerous to little ones, who are fragile, but can be largely avoidable when good hygiene measures are taken. With that in mind, today’s post outlines various ways in which parents can stay on top of hygiene around the preparation of food for their children. And, of course, such measures will keep adults safer too.
Ensuring the food preparation environment is clean and hygienic will reduce the chance of microbes, including germs and viruses, contaminating food. Wiping down with warm, soapy, water on clean dish cloths is ideal for many such tasks. Anti-bacterial sprays are useful but should not be allowed to contaminate food, plates and cutlery etc. directly or indirectly.
Only feed children, especially babies and under-fives, age-appropriate food/meals. This is very important because many foods contain too much salt, sugar and saturated fats for young children. Some other foods can contain dangerous levels of toxins or even heavy metals.
Always thoroughly wash vegetables, fruit and salads and, when appropriate, peel vegetables before use.
It’s hugely beneficial if children learn about food safety and proper hygiene associated with its preparation. Such things are useful life lessons and will help to keep them more safe and free of illnesses and nasty bugs. Teach them by example whenever possible. A great start is to encourage them to thoroughly wash their hands and fingers with warm, soapy water before preparing or eating food. They should also be encouraged to sit down at the table and be in a calm state before eating. This will help to better ensure food does not become contaminated or knocked onto a dirty floor. It will also reduce the chance of the child choking on food.

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As well as helping families financially, the scheme expansion should help children begin their early years education even earlier, for many, which has been shown to be hugely beneficial to them. The free childcare provision will also help many more women back into the workforce. Children, families and the economy should all benefit.



